Three Steps for Developing a Personal Growth Plan

Tis’ the season to think about New Year’s resolutions. As you do, I would encourage you to channel that desire for change into developing a personal growth plan for the next six months. Here are three important steps to develop a plan that will help you put feet to your desires:

1. Identify 1-3 areas of your life where you would like to see change

Where would you like to grow? It’s important that you are fairly specific. For example, you may want to grow spiritually over the next six months. That’s great! Yet, I would encourage you to think about a particular area of your spiritual life that you would like to grow. For me, I would like to strengthen my prayer life. At this stage, we are simply expressing good intentions. In my experience, most people stop here. The next step is critical to actually translating the good intentions into life change.

2. Develop 3-5 SMART action steps around each area where you would like to see change

As you think about actions steps that you can take to develop the area(s) you identified in step one, make sure that they are SMART: 

• Specific (focused on one clearly defined area) – Regarding my desire to strengthen my prayer life, I would like one of my action steps to focus specifically on personal prayer retreats.
• Measurable (you should be able to chart your progress and know when you have achieved the action step) – My first actions step would involve going on two one-day prayer retreats over the next six months.
• Achievable (you should be able to achieve the action step by the end of the six months) – My initial thought was to do monthly prayer retreats. However, I think once every three months is more doable. Action steps are kind of like baby steps. As you take them, you experience a sense of accomplishment, which creates momentum to take further steps.
• Realistic (you should actually be able to do it given your commitments and other considerations) – We can dream up all sorts of wonderful goals and resolutions. Most of them fall by the wayside simply because they are not realistic given who we are and our other commitments.
• Time-bound (you should include a completion date so that you have a clear target for completing the action step) – I would encourage you to put this target completion date in your calendar and insert reminders in the preceding weeks to make sure it’s on your radar. 

My SMART action step is to set up (in the next week) two one-day prayer retreats that will take place over the next six months (one retreat every three months).

3. Set up supportive accountability

Share the area(s) of your life you would like to change and the accompanying action steps with someone who will pray for you and encourage you. Growth can be hard work and we need this kind of support to take the necessary steps.

What is one area of your life where you would like to see growth? What would be a SMART action step that you could take in this area?